You know those days when you wake up really really late and everything, right from finding your pants, to the auto driver, seem to be completely against you reaching office on time?
I just had that day today.:| My company bus generally comes to my stop at 12.40. And guess when I woke up? 12.45!! Oh my god! I slept 11 hours straight! I was so shocked! At first I thought it was Saturday and I didn’t have to wake up early. Then I realized no, it was Friday. After that, I thought my clock was malfunctioning! Man! The excuses a mind can come up with! :D Anyway, I finally checked my phone and damn, it really was 12.45 and NOT a Saturday. So as usual, I panicked. I called a very good friend of mine (who, ironically, misses her buses quite often), and frantically asked her what I should do!!!! She asked me to reach a particular location by 1 o’clock, as quite a few buses go that way. 1 o’clock? That’s’ like 15 minutes away!! She called me up again and asked me if I wanted her to get down her bus. And I said hell yesss!!! Yayy!! I had company!!
Anyway, I got ready pretty fast and ran out of home and didn’t realize my phone got switched off. Its been acting pretty weird a LOT now-a-days. (see? Everything against you?) So before I realized that, I got into an auto to get me to that place. I agreed to pay him 30 bucks, but when I checked my wallet, I had only 20! This was one of the rare occasions I wished even the auto drivers accepted plastic money. My god, can the day get any worse? Apparently, it could. When I switched on my phone, my friend again called me up, telling me that she didn’t get down at that place, but she had spoken to the transport department and they said a bus would be coming along in sometime. So that was good news. The bad news was that I was ten bucks short of paying the auto driver that amount!! And obviously it wasn’t a small amount for them, nor, as I learnt today, for us. I had initially thought I would borrow it from my friend, but she didn’t get down! Now what? I told her I was out of cash and being the sweetheart that she is, she got down at another location and asked me to come there.
Now, my auto driver was so understanding, that even after I told him I missed my bus and had to catch it, he drove slower than a bullock cart. I was so so frustrated! And when I asked him to go a little faster, he had the cheek to yell back and say that there was too much traffic! Dude, what are the other vehicles doing? I retaliated a little, due to which he refused to come till the second location!! Aargghh!! Why, of all the auto's I could get into, I had to get into this auto???????? Anyway, he said he wouldn’t come and called another auto. What about the ten bucks? I borrowed it from the other auto driver and gave it to him. Yeah, pretty pathetic, I know. But hey, I’m not always late!
So FINALLY I reached the place where my friend was waiting. And she paid the auto driver. Phew! I was just so relieved! :D we called the transport dept once again and found out that the bus would take another 25 minutes to reach our location. Now, since we had nothing else to do, we decided to have Pani Puris. We just had the last of them when the bus which was supposed to stop for us just passed by us without stopping! Oh my god no!!!!We called the transport again (we called them a lot of times :D), and told ,actually partly whined, partly accused them, that we were waiting for the bus and it just passed by us without stopping! And he patiently told us that there was another bus of the same number on its way, which hadn’t even crossed my house yet. Ah! So relieving! :)
Anyhow, the rest of the day went by pretty well. I actually had a lot of fun at office! :) so all in all, great day!
What did I learn? Being late sometimes can be fun too!! :D It’s ok to be late once in a while and experience such crazy crazy stuff! Cheers all!! Be crazy! :D
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Where are we now!! ??
Imagine that you are completely stressed out one day, completely exhausted. And on your way back from office or college, you see a baby and he/she gives you a million dollar, cute, totally adorable toothless smile! Doesn’t it lift your mood? And cheer you up in an instant? Doesn’t it give you the confidence that your situation not as bad as it looks and that yes I can handle any thing? That’s the power of smile. And I think most of us have forgotten how to smile more often or we just feel that it’s not important anymore.
I recently had my haircut in one of the so-called “professional” salons. Since it is one of those posh places, smiles are almost nonexistent. Of course, the person at the reception was friendly and sure, he was smiling, but the others were stone faced. My stylist was a little arrogant. Though for what reason, I’m totally clueless *rolling eyes*. But there was this one person who smiled so genuinely, he touched my heart. he was the person who opened the door for us when we entered the salon. So down to earth, so sweet, so likeable. He seemed so happy with what he was doing! It felt as if nothing gave him more pleasure than smiling at us! It was so nice to see a friendly face there. I won’t ever forget him.
But why is it that smiles are becoming so rare? Why is it that throwing attitiude (not smiling and turning up ur nose) means people respect them? Why is that smiling and being friendly means people take you granted? Why is it that we are inceasingly becoming so materialistic? And actually judging people based on how well off they are? Now-a-days, its even common for people to not like someone just because they aren’t sophisticated. I mean how shallow can they get. And the vibes they send out! People have become so self-centered. Thinking only what we feel is right. Inconsiderate about the other person’s plight, so into ourselves!
The incident I want to narrate took place when I was on my way to college in a bus. For anyone who has travelled in an RTC bus on a college going day knows how crowded it can get. So anyway, it was one of the extra crowded days and the bus was packed. And a differently abled person got onto the bus. Now generally, it’s basic courtesy that you get up and offer him your seat. I was so shocked to see that no one got up to give him a seat! :O thankfully, I was sitting in a seat so I got up and he could sit. But seriously? Where’s all the basic humanity gone? And it was mostly college going girls! If they think they cannot stand because the bus is too crowded, then they should have thought about how difficult it would have been for that person, who walks with a clutch, to stand and survive the drive (the bus drivers of Hyderabad aren’t the most careful ones on roads :P)!
This is where we have become so insensitive towards others. This is where we are so caught up thinking about our problems, our issues, that we fail to help another person who is in greater need of our support and guidance.
So why is it so difficult to think of others before ourselves? Its because of our fear of being used by others; being made a fool of without knowing; being taken for granted. Oh sure, we can give 100’s of reasons for not doing it; we don’t know how people really are, its not safe to get friendly and blah blah blah. But deep down, its our insecurity that makes us behave in a certain way. But we’re forgetting the most important thing… not everyone is bad. For people who have read the book called “ the secret” by Rhonda Bryne will know that what you think about the most, you attract that the most and that’s what you end up experiencing that very situation. So if you’re going to keep thinking “ oh my god, all the peole are bad and they want to harm me in some way or that other”, that’s what you’ll get. On the other hand, if you think “ all the people I meet are so nice and helpful”, that’s what you will attract and receive! My dad’s the perfect example. He’s always so positive and calm, and he’s friendly with every body- and when I say everybody I mean everybody. He doesn’t have a single negative opinion about anything or anyone! And guess what? All the people he meets are the best people any one can ever meet! Its so surprising, but there it is!! Its all in our attitude.
Its not wrong to give that extra smile to an unknown person. Its not difficult to be kind to others. Its not impossible to go a little out of your way to help another person out. Its not impractical to think a little more about others and lesser about ourselves …
So let’s all decide (and I’m NOT preaching), at least once a day, we will do something for others, to make them happy. Think more of them and less of us. We will feel so good, so joyous if we do something for others. it will make the other person glad to have us in his/ her life. And most important, we will feel completely satisfied.
Cheers all!! And keep smiling!!
I recently had my haircut in one of the so-called “professional” salons. Since it is one of those posh places, smiles are almost nonexistent. Of course, the person at the reception was friendly and sure, he was smiling, but the others were stone faced. My stylist was a little arrogant. Though for what reason, I’m totally clueless *rolling eyes*. But there was this one person who smiled so genuinely, he touched my heart. he was the person who opened the door for us when we entered the salon. So down to earth, so sweet, so likeable. He seemed so happy with what he was doing! It felt as if nothing gave him more pleasure than smiling at us! It was so nice to see a friendly face there. I won’t ever forget him.
But why is it that smiles are becoming so rare? Why is it that throwing attitiude (not smiling and turning up ur nose) means people respect them? Why is that smiling and being friendly means people take you granted? Why is it that we are inceasingly becoming so materialistic? And actually judging people based on how well off they are? Now-a-days, its even common for people to not like someone just because they aren’t sophisticated. I mean how shallow can they get. And the vibes they send out! People have become so self-centered. Thinking only what we feel is right. Inconsiderate about the other person’s plight, so into ourselves!
The incident I want to narrate took place when I was on my way to college in a bus. For anyone who has travelled in an RTC bus on a college going day knows how crowded it can get. So anyway, it was one of the extra crowded days and the bus was packed. And a differently abled person got onto the bus. Now generally, it’s basic courtesy that you get up and offer him your seat. I was so shocked to see that no one got up to give him a seat! :O thankfully, I was sitting in a seat so I got up and he could sit. But seriously? Where’s all the basic humanity gone? And it was mostly college going girls! If they think they cannot stand because the bus is too crowded, then they should have thought about how difficult it would have been for that person, who walks with a clutch, to stand and survive the drive (the bus drivers of Hyderabad aren’t the most careful ones on roads :P)!
This is where we have become so insensitive towards others. This is where we are so caught up thinking about our problems, our issues, that we fail to help another person who is in greater need of our support and guidance.
So why is it so difficult to think of others before ourselves? Its because of our fear of being used by others; being made a fool of without knowing; being taken for granted. Oh sure, we can give 100’s of reasons for not doing it; we don’t know how people really are, its not safe to get friendly and blah blah blah. But deep down, its our insecurity that makes us behave in a certain way. But we’re forgetting the most important thing… not everyone is bad. For people who have read the book called “ the secret” by Rhonda Bryne will know that what you think about the most, you attract that the most and that’s what you end up experiencing that very situation. So if you’re going to keep thinking “ oh my god, all the peole are bad and they want to harm me in some way or that other”, that’s what you’ll get. On the other hand, if you think “ all the people I meet are so nice and helpful”, that’s what you will attract and receive! My dad’s the perfect example. He’s always so positive and calm, and he’s friendly with every body- and when I say everybody I mean everybody. He doesn’t have a single negative opinion about anything or anyone! And guess what? All the people he meets are the best people any one can ever meet! Its so surprising, but there it is!! Its all in our attitude.
Its not wrong to give that extra smile to an unknown person. Its not difficult to be kind to others. Its not impossible to go a little out of your way to help another person out. Its not impractical to think a little more about others and lesser about ourselves …
So let’s all decide (and I’m NOT preaching), at least once a day, we will do something for others, to make them happy. Think more of them and less of us. We will feel so good, so joyous if we do something for others. it will make the other person glad to have us in his/ her life. And most important, we will feel completely satisfied.
Cheers all!! And keep smiling!!
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